Books for Adults on Disabilities

Read and recommended by some of our members. Most can be found in major book shops or through an online book store such as Amazon. Access Amazon through Special Kids in the UK and help raise funds for our charity if you purchase an item.

Grief Dancers - a journey into the depths of the soul'

By Susan Zimmermann

"The story of her experiences with her daughter (birth to 14) who was diagnosed with Rett Syndrome age about 6 or 7. Has 3 younger children too, and talks mainly about her feelings and experiences throughout the journey, first for a cure, then for a diagnosis, then towards some kind of acceptance"

Nobody's Perfect : Living and Growing with Children Who Have Special Needs

By Nancy Miller

Best Special Interest Parenting Book Award Winner, Child Magazine Nobody's Perfect. "First one I read after Charlie and still one of the best. It tells of several families all with children with different special needs and how they got through those early years and where they are now. It is very down to earth, very encouraging and honest...I recommend it!! It was the book that made me realise my own grief and depression and sheer resentment in the early days was not only normal, but ok! I'd give the book to every new Special Needs parent....!"

'Expecting Adam'

by M Beck

"Awesome! As a Harvard super brain finds she is expecting a son with Downs. Her struggle is very emotional and the spiritual (not Christian) experience that accompanies her pregnancy is mind boggling and is seriously worth a read.!!! I have passed this to non special needs people to read too and they all come back with a 'wow what a story' response!"

'Does she know she's there?'

by Nicola Shaeffer

"The daughter is my age but her story is from birth to adulthood of coping with a child with profound disabilities. It is very moving and very funny"

The Child with Special Needs: Encouraging Intellectual and Emotional Growth' (A Merloyd Lawrence Book)

By Stanley I. Greenspan, Serena Wieder, Robin Simons

Covering all types of disabilities, this work offers specific ways to help all children reach their full intellectual and emotional potential. The book shows how to move beyond the label and observe the strengths and problems of the particular child and the key milestones that must be reached.

'Small Steps Forward: Using Games and Activities to help your pre-school child with Special Needs'

By Sarah Newman

This book is written by a parent for other parents or carers
When I found out that my son was severely developmentally delayed at one (later diagnosed as autistic), I looked round desperately for a book which would help me understand very early child development and give me ideas for games I could play and things I could do which would help him. I could not find such a book. A few years later I decided to write it myself. This book is written without jargon and in an accessible style. It is written by a parent for other parents and carers of pre-school children with special needs. It breaks down child development into the areas of language, physical, cognitive, sensory, social and emotional skills and describes normal development in the early years. It then gives lots of examples of games to play to encourage development in each case. I also describe behaviour management techniques, sleep and toilet training as these are common problems. I give guidelines on playing with children generally, strategies for coping with the stresses of being a parent of a child with special needs, information on financial support and the statutory assessment, a bibliography and a list of useful addresses. As a mother of 3 children under 5 years old I know how limited time and resources are, so this book is designed to be instantly appealing and accessible and the games require no special preparation and can be played with the toys and things we all have to hand.

The Out-of-Sync Child: Recognizing and Coping with Sensory Integration Dysfunction

Carol Stock Kranowitz

Excellent introduction to sensory integration dysfunction, which is common to many children with hypotonia.

The Child With Special Needs: Encouraging Intellectual and Emotional Growth

Stanley I. Greenspan M.D. and Serena Wieder, Ph.D with RobinSimons 1998.

Weightier than the previous book but also addresses sensory integration issues as well as giving lots of ideas for developing play and communication.

Cortical Visual Impairment, presentation, assessment and management

"A very practical guide on CVI, what it is, causes, assessment, improvement, management and case studies. I found it a big help in understanding the condition and how to improve it"

Cerebral Palsy - A practical guide

By Marion Stanton. Published by OPTIMA 1992

"My bible when J was young. Covers all aspects of CP - symptoms and diagnosis, formal treatment and support, alternative treatments, social factors, day to day care, education and employment"

Skallagrigg

by William Horwood

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Cerebral palsy: A complete guide for caregiving

Miller MD and Steven J. Bachrach MD

"Has sections on the different types of cp (hemiplegia, diplegia and quadriplegia) and the different problems that 'sufferers' are likely to have at different ages and its effects in adulthood. It also has sections on choosing appropriate equipment and home modifications etc"

Handling the young child with cerebral palsy at home.

Nancie R Finnie

"This book has practical suggestions to help maintain good postural management during the normal daily routine. "

When a baby dies: The experience of late miscarriage, stillbirth and neonaatal death

Nancy Kohner and Alix Henley

"I found this book very helpful when my baby died"

Based on the experiences of many hundreds of bereaved parents, When A Baby Dies describes the tragic and bewildering experience of losing a baby through miscarriage, stillbirth and neonatal death.

'The Hypotonic Child'

Regi Boehme 1990

Skill Builders, a division of Communication Skill Builders 3830 E. Bellevue, PO Box 42050 Tucson Arizona 85733

Aimed at physiotherapists, has basic background on how hypotonia affects the young child and exercises for pre-walkers.

Show me what my friends can see

by Patricia Sonksen and Blanche Stiff, from the Wolfson Centre, Mecklenburgh Square London NC1N 2AP. A cost may apply.

"This is a development guide for parents of babies with severely impaired sight and their professional advisors. A really useful guide to helping  your visually impaired child to develop and understand their environment"

Special Children, Special Needs

by Mary McCormack. Published by Thorsons 1992.

"This book is different families experiences of caring for a mentally handicapped child and different stages in their lives.  Very emotional and heart wrenching writing"

'Mummy Why Have I Got Down's Syndrome'

by Caroline Philps

The continuation of the story of Lizzie, this book helps to capture the joys and dilemmas of having a Down's child as well as giving practical advice. Her mother writes of Lizzie at church and school, and of her relationship with her brother and sister. The first book is called "Elizabeth Joy".

Let our Children Be Parents With Attitude.
"Stories of inclusion,exclusion, general life, written by parents, siblings and the kids themselves. I particularly like one short piece of writing where a mother compares her two children, writing from their point of view.  The older one is not disabled, and is labelled by all around him as "sociable, active, busy, friendly enjoys a cuddle" whereas similar behaviour from the younger one is called "indiscriminately affectionate, hyperactive, cannot sustain concentration, clingy"."

Positions for Play

Booklet. Published by Play Matters, 68 Churchway, London NW1 1LT.

This booklet shows parents how to help their disabled child and get the most out of play times. Very useful.